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March 5, 2025

Mind Over Madness-Part 1: With Sean McCallum

Get buckled up because this episode is a big one. We’re kicking off a two-part series with the one and only Sean McCallum, and let’s just say—this guy gets it . Sean isn’t your average firefighter. Sure, he’s spent 22+ years ...

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Feb. 26, 2025

Cool Story, Bro! How to Lose a Goal in 10 Excuses & the Power of YET

Alright folks, buckle up because today Erin and Cinnamon are calling out that sneaky, progress-blocking beast: self-sabotage. We all do it. We all have that little voice that says, "Why even try?" or "You're just gonna fail a...

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Feb. 19, 2025

Feelings Aren't Facts:Taking Things Personally-A Masterclass in Misery

Taking things personally can strain relationships, yet so many of us struggle to step back and give others the space they need. In this episode of After the Tones Drop , Cinnamon and Erin dive into why we internalize others' ...

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Feb. 12, 2025

Brotherhood Betrayal: With Ed Monroe

In this powerful episode of After the Tones Drop , we sit down with Captain Ed Monroe, a 16-year veteran of the LA County Fire Department, whose life and leadership were forever changed by a tragic critical incident within hi...

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Feb. 5, 2025

When Words Fail: The Worst Things to Say to Someone Grieving

Grief is one of those things that hits everyone differently, and let’s be honest—most of us suck at knowing what to say when someone we care about is going through it. Whether it's at a funeral, in a sympathy card, or just a ...

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Jan. 29, 2025

The Other "F" Words: A Deeper Dive into Stress Responses

Ever heard of the fight-or-flight response? Of course you have. But what about the other F words—freeze, fawn, and faint? No, we’re not kidding. In this episode of After the Tones Drop , Erin and Cinnamon take a hilarious yet...

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Jan. 22, 2025

Rest Without the Risk: With Jon Vought

Let’s talk about the impossible balancing act of being a firefighter, running a business, and still managing to take care of yourself. That’s exactly what today’s guest, Jon Vought, is doing. Jon is a 15-year veteran firefigh...

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Jan. 15, 2025

Sharing the Load: When Giving Your All Means Less Than Half

This episode, we're unpacking a concept that's been a game changer for us and many others: the idea that relationships don't need to be 50/50 all the time but should rather aim for 100% collectively, however that splits. Insp...

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Jan. 8, 2025

Mountie Mentality: With Brad Savage

It’s not easy to admit you’re struggling, especially when you’re supposed to be the strong one. Brad Savage, a 15-year veteran of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police, knows this better than most. From serving in Canada’s larges...

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Jan. 1, 2025

A Fresh Slate: Embracing New Beginnings with Intention and Grace

In today's New Year episode, Erin and Cinnamon warmly welcome listeners back after their holiday break, refreshed and ready to jump into the new year. They initiate a thoughtful dialogue on why setting intentions surpasses ma...

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Dec. 6, 2024

SPECIAL RELEASE- The Anniversary Effect: When Loss Leaves a Mark

Warning: This Episode discusses suicide, so please listen with caution. We were supposed to be on a podcast release break, but this one couldn’t wait. Sometimes, life throws you those days where grief and loss show up uninvit...

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Nov. 27, 2024

Holiday Pause: Reflecting, Recharging, and Returning Stronger

Erin and Cinnamon are taking a beat to catch their breath after a wild ride through 2024. Five weeks of non-stop travel, trainings, and conferences? Yeah, they’re officially ready to park their suitcases, hang out with their ...

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Nov. 20, 2024

Tactical Financial Moves: With Ryan Mink

In this episode of After the Tones Drop , we talk to Ryan Mink—former Army infantryman, law enforcement officer, and now a financial planner who actually gets it . This guy has seen it all, from the chaos of the battlefield t...

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Nov. 13, 2024

Ask Like You Mean It: A Guide to Meaningful Conversations

Erin unpacks something that may seem straightforward but packs a huge punch: asking better questions. Whether you’re a first responder, a partner, or just trying to keep the peace over family dinner, the way we ask questions ...

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Nov. 6, 2024

Burning From Within: With Guests Chris & Tara O'Barsky-A Story of Sur…

In this episode of After the Tones Drop , we share the powerful story of Chris, a deputy chief with over 30 years in the fire service, and his wife Tara, an educator with a 25-year career. Their journey has been marked by the...

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Oct. 30, 2024

Bracing for Impact: The Strange Case of Foreboding Joy

In this episode, Cinnamon takes us through a concept that’s as frustrating as it is relatable: foreboding joy . Ever had a moment of real happiness, only to be hit with a gut-punch of worry about when it’s all going to come c...

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Oct. 23, 2024

Myths That Won’t Die – Two Years Later and Still Busting Therapy Myths

Welcome back to another episode of After the Tones Drop! Today, we’re revisiting and re-releasing our second ever episode because, unfortunately, even after two years, the myths surrounding therapy are still holding on strong...

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Oct. 16, 2024

Pound for Pound: With Monica Crawford

This episode isn’t your average fitness chat. Erin and Cinnamon sit down with Monica Crawford, the brains (and brawn) behind Five-O, Fierce, and Fit , an online fitness and nutrition coaching biz that’s all about getting fema...

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Oct. 9, 2024

You're the Author: Rewriting the Narrative of Good Vs. Bad

In this solo episode, Erin takes the mic to dive into the mental wrestling match we all know too well: good versus bad. Yeah, it seems simple—but let’s be real, life loves to kick us when we're down, and suddenly that “bad” c...

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Oct. 2, 2024

Lucky Number Six: With Keith Hanks

In this episode of After the Tones Drop , Erin and Cinnamon sit down with Keith Hanks, a retired firefighter and EMT who’s seen more chaos and tragedy than most of us can even imagine. Keith doesn't hold back. We're talking c...

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Sept. 25, 2024

Snooze or Lose: The Dangers of Poor Sleep & Learning Simple Solutions…

In this solo episode of After the Tones Drop , Cinnamon takes the mic to talk about a topic that might seem simple on the surface but is a huge issue for first responders—sleep. We all know sleep is important, but as Cinnamon...

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Sept. 18, 2024

The Drinking Dilemma: Hotline Caller

In this episode of After the Tones Drop, Erin and Cinnamon take on a question from a hotline caller who is a newly minted 21-year-old firefighter who's asking something we don't hear often enough: “Should I even start drinkin...

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Sept. 11, 2024

In Their Honor: A 9/11 Tribute to Courage and Sacrifice

Today take a moment to honor the first responders who demonstrated extraordinary courage and unwavering dedication in the face of one of our nation's greatest tragedies: the events of September 11th, 2001. Join us as we pay t...

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Sept. 4, 2024

Guided by God Winks: With Marian Cosgrove

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Marian Cosgrove, a law enforcement officer whose story is nothing short of extraordinary. From a childhood filled with both joy and profound trauma to navigating the complexities of ...

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